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LET THEM HATE YOU
A little book for girls who are tired of being "too much" and "not enough" at the same time.
If you have ever lost sleep replaying a conversation, apologized just to keep the peace, or felt like your worth depends on someone texting back — this book was written for you.
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You are not "too sensitive." You were never taught how to stop carrying what isn't yours.
- You reread texts three times before sending them — then again after they reply.
- A tiny change in someone's tone ruins your whole day.
- You say 'sorry' for things that aren't your fault.
- You chase people who go quiet, hoping you didn't do something wrong.
- You shrink yourself to make other people comfortable.
- Everyone else's feelings feel like your job to fix.
The quiet cost of caring too much
You are not imagining it. The research backs up what your anxiety already knows.
80%
of women say they struggle to say no without feeling guilty
Journal of Personality research on agreeableness & burnout
3+ hrs
average daily mental time spent replaying conversations & worrying what others think
Anxiety & Depression Association data on social rumination
2x
more likely teen girls are to experience anxiety linked to social approval
NIH / Journal of Adolescent Health trends
$2.99
less than one iced coffee — for a reset you can read in one sitting
Launch price for waitlist members
What if you could stop performing and start existing?
LET THEM HATE YOU is not about being mean. It is about being honest — with yourself first. It is the book you read in one night, underline half of, and hand to your best friend the next morning.
Read it tonight. Start choosing yourself tomorrow.
Inside the book
- The real reason you can't stop people-pleasing (and how to break the pattern)
- How to set a boundary without apologizing five times after
- What to do when your stomach drops because someone is 'off' with you
- Scripts for saying no — without the guilt spiral
- How to take up space without feeling like you're 'too much'
- A nightly routine to stop overthinking and actually like yourself again
Short enough to finish in one sitting. Honest enough to change how you move through the world.
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This is for you if…
Let them hate you. Choose you anyway.
The waitlist is free. The book is $2.99 at launch. The version of you who stops apologizing for existing? That part is priceless.
Join the waitlist nowFrom Sofia, creator of Bloomy — the app helping girls take care of their bodies and their boundaries.